I really applaud AskMen.com's advice for guys on Valentine's Day. Their ideas include preceding extended foreplay with a hot, sensual bath to help set the mood. If you're feeling extra frisky, surprise her with a new location! A change of scenery and the excitement of getting caught being naughty could be just the spark you need to jumpstart your passion. If your lover enjoyed the 50 Shades of Grey series, Valentine's Day may be the perfect opportunity to incorporate erotic power exchange. And if chocolate must be involved to honor tradition, switch it up by melting it on your bodies and languishing in the experience of licking it off every inch.
Sherri Aikin is a Fellow of Integrative Medicine, Nurse Practitioner, Sex Counselor, Mindfulness Facilitator, and Life Coach.